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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

08.06.2025 05:22

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

What is your favorite position? Why?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

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32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

Is it socially acceptable for individuals to wear clothing typically associated with the opposite gender? What are some reasons for or against this practice?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

Why do good-looking men date homely women?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

What is after school detention like in your school?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

Why do Indian guys love Russian girls?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

How can one learn to talk frankly?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

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*** Questions About Me ***

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

How does a 45-year-old man get a girlfriend?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

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2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

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2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

The Ice Breaker Questions

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

39~ What are your love languages?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

*** Random Questions ***

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

If you win, what will you make them do?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

Any that are a turn off?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

Nothing too Serious

62~ Have you used adult toys?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

Please share Did you stop?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

Any that are a turn off?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

If yes, what?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

52~ What are your hobbies?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

Family Relation Age Play

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

How old are you? Male or Female?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

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84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

29- How superstitious are you?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

Would you read them together?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?